Letting Go

I know I’m trying my best but the hardest part is letting go

I was thinking about you. I was trying my hardest to let you go. You know about it right and we both know about it.

Let’s saying we’re just kids in Love but nothing can compare this love. Your love that you gave to me or even my love that I gave to you. And we both know, it’s unnecessary for us to keep remembering these memories. All we have to do is just letting go.

Letting you go never means that my love’s already gone for you. And letting you go never means I already failed and give up on you.

But sometimes, Letting you go means that I love you so. Letting you go means that all I want is just seeing you happy even you’re not by my side. And letting you go means I’m willing enough to give the you the choice.

You know, I was thinking about our last memories. I know it’s like a slight of heaven. You made me laugh and smile in the different way, like no one ever did. You gave me all of your attention and you did care of me.

But honestly, I know we should stop. Stop our day dreaming and face the world. We both know we should save our heart for someone that’s worth dying for. And we both know that love can bring such the terrible things and there’re so much to lose.

So, I’m telling you this because I know this is the best choice for us.

Even if you can tell I haven’t slept very well since the last time we spoke. And I said, please understand if I see you again don’t even say hello..

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A chaotic mind about Love

Guess who never fall in Love?

I bet no one did because I do believe that everyone ever feel it.

What do you think about it? Is it such a wonderful thing? Or such a terrible thing?

I smile, when I write this post. I never mean to share my experience in this post but I do want to give my opinion about it.

Love,

Well, love can give you everything, wonderful and also terrible things. Maybe sometime, when we just in love (in this case a relationship love) with someone. We feel like, this is our best moment and we do really want to make it lasts forever. We just want to stay in our lover’s side and make sure that everything is right. Everything seems to be right because he/she is in my side.

But another thing,

Love can show us such a nightmare. Love can give us so much pain that we never feel before. It leads us to cry, cry out loud. Maybe it can make us feel that we just got the worst moment in our life. And no one could help us, except him/ her. It leads us to feel lonely just because we already lose him/ her.

That’s the fact. A relationship love can be so harmful if we just found it- not in proper time. But we can’t blame anyone for that. Because Love can find their own way and Love is so unpredictable. Sometimes, we just found it, we feel it just a moment like Love at first sight (if you believe about it). It’s easy to fall in love but it’s really hard to control it. Because mostly when we fall in love, we can lose our mind, we can do a crazy thing for the sake of Love.

I just want you to know,

We should believe that we can control our mind, our heart- even it’s the hardest thing. Don’t let Love destroyed our life. Don’t suicide just because we lose our love.
We should realize that we still have much love from other people, like family, friends, teacher and another. Don’t close your heart. You should open it and let you feel all that their all is just for you. Everything is right. You can gain the many thing from the terrible moment. Sometimes, it leads you to be stronger than ever.

And the last.

Fall in love is like a destiny, like fate. And I do believe we can’t control when will we fall in Love.

But…

We can control our love. We are the one who can choose the option. To grow it or to leave it died by itself…

Love can give so many things. And all we could do is just waiting for the right time to fall in love- with no more hurts.

We’ll have a gorgeous Love when we found and feel it in the proper time.

One love that lasts forever. 

 

 

 

Wonderful and Terrible Thing

I’m telling you this because life can do terrible things

Someone told me that Life can bring a wonderful thing…
And someone else told me that Life can bring a terrible thing…
I believe that is true, Life give us such many things,
Even a wonderful thing which bring you smile and all the happiness,
Or a terrible thing which bring you all the sadness

Life can bring a wonderful thing and also a terrible thing and either with love.
Love can make you feel the happiest moment but also the most terrible moment.
It depends on you, it depends to how you bring it…

Love is on its way.
And no one will know how they find it,
Because sometimes it just comes suddenly and just like a fate, a destiny…

Today,
I just read a post.
Yea someone told me that….
“‎’I love you’ means that I accept you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else.

It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times.

It means loving you when you’re in bad mood or too tired to do things I want to do.
It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with.
It means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine.
It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go.
It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, hoping you feel the same way about me.”

Love is the way how we care about someone,
Love is the way how we give without hoping we will get the same,
Love is the way to show this the real me,
Love is the way to show this is me,
Love is the way to show ‘I am what I am and You are what You are. And I don’t want to change a thing’

Lizzy, 27/01/2012, 08.56 A.M