First Impression

Do you think first impression is important?

Actually, most people think, it just takes a few minutes to make a judgement about someone when they first meet. It always happens when we meet someone new and start to talk with them. Our mind simply gives a judgement by looking at their appearance, the way they talk and etc.

For me, first impressions are important because it helps me to make a decision whether I’m going to be friends with them or I’m going to avoid them. In fact, we might try to get closer with people who click with us. We’ll probably start to share everything that we like with them and it’s a good start to build a friendship.

Another thing, first impressions, especially when we suddenly make a decision “to avoid someone” can give us a negative effect. I have had an experience about it and I think most people ever have this experience. It happens the first time we meet someone, our minds unconsciously say, “I should stay away from you or I don’t really like you.” This  will make us keep apart from those person. We might try to not even try to talk with them.

Sadly, that first impression may be wrong. For example, at the first time we meet someone. We just give a negative judgement about them. We try to avoid them and our mind keep think about them in negative way. It actually tears us apart from them. It’s also unfair for us, to not even giving a try to build friendship with them.

First impression may get wrong, especially when we’ve already know about them. It really happens to me, at that time, I was trying my best to avoid someone just because I thought she was arrogant and rude. But by the time, I got a chance to talk with her and she was not arrogant at all. She was kind and very friendly! At that time, I’ve just notice that she was totally different from what I think about.

I was so sorry to her for being negative all the time. When I said the truth, she was just smile and said that people may got wrong just because their first impression. I was so embarrassed, but started at that time, I try my best to not judge people easily.

 

Backstabber

I was wondering how this word comes out into my mouth. Backstabbers. What do you think about them?

I hate backstabbers the most. I hate liars and for backstabbers are even worse than just liars. They are not only lying with us but also betraying us.

I keep wondering how come people can to that. I mean after all those things that happen in their life; like spending time together or so.

The backstabbers always act like they are our mate, our best friend or even more than family but at the end they destroy it all. They turn out into the real them. We know that we can’t keep or hide such a lie till the rest of our life. Sooner or later we’ll find out those lies.

As I know, human is easily to get hurt since they have a fragile heart. It can be easily broken into pieces by a mistake; which is lie. I do hate the backstabbers the most. No one deserve to be treated like that. Everyone deserves to get the happiness without getting betrayed.

I got the moral thing; human’s heart is so fragile so I’d rather keep silent ‘cos I know it can easily get hurt by just  some words.

A chaotic mind; taking benefits of others.

Do you notice it or it’s just me who feels it?

I was thinking about a group of people or someone who always take benefits of others. It’s crazy, annoying me but it’s real. As a human being, I know everyone always searching for any benefits that they can take, anytime, anywhere they go and anyone the meet. Even though I’m sick of those people, I can’t guarantee that I’m not one of them.

I never know what others really think of me. I don’t want to be negative but I should admit that people can hide their real feelings perfectly (sometimes it works). They can pretend like they love me but deep inside they don’t like me. They can pretend like a friend, lover but deep inside, they just searching a chance to get some benefits of me.

Oh, I notice that I just already being negative…

Umm but I surely have a reason why I feel this way.

Last but not least, you will get what you give to others. Now I just try to give anyone all that I can give. Show the real me and surely try to not search for any benefits of other because I know how does it feels. It hurts; so much pain and no one deserve to be treated like that.

The Bitterness of Love

Always about Love and the terrible things are the best. We can see that love bring and change everything. We know that love is one of the most powerful things beside the powerful of prayers- if you believe in God. There is a lot of people change just because of Love. They change their habit and attitude for the sake of love. Sometimes it brings us to be a better person but no offence it also can bring us into the worst despair.

I just see a man with the broken thing and pretty sure that is his heart. That entire he said just blaming himself of letting his lover go. He becomes such a useless person. All those sadness make him stay away from his community. He prefers to be alone by not letting anyone help him. I know he need time to heal his pain but sometimes it keep makes me wonder how long does it take to recover it?

I am a normal human and I ever feel it. Being broken into pieces after all those wonderful feeling is the worst and I know it. It takes ages to heal and to deal with it. It has been the hardest part to move on and to start everything new. That time I felt that I was the most unlucky girl in the world and kept thinking that I was the only one who is broken. Those feeling were so harmful. It took me into the laziest girl the world. All that I did just thinking about him who would never come back into my life. I kept remembering our first meeting and all those memories that happen between us. That was a big mistake, I mean by keep looking in the past. We can never go and start a new beginning if we still look in the past. I know, I am kind of people who keep the memories for all the time but sometimes that habit is not good for us. The only one good thing of remembering the past is just to helps us learn and make sure that we would never do the same mistake again.

I gain the moral thing from those experiences. Don’t fall in love there is just too much to lose. Yeah, that is true. If you are afraid of being broken you should better keep your heart. Save it. Don’t just give it to someone who is not worth for your life. Don’t ever give it to someone who never brings you to live. One right is much better than hundreds wrong. You don’t need to fall in love for thousand times just to feel the love. I ever read a quotation it said that a true love is fall in love thousand times but always with the same person. I smile when I read it and I agree with it. Believe me; if you already find the one you will probably love him for the rest of your life. If you don’t pretty sure you will just get all those pains that keep you broken.

“I was constructed for you and you were molded for me”

And tonight I know, I should write at least something for you. With all my heart and soul, I’ll just let my fingers dance all over the keyboard. Let them help me to tell you about this feeling. I know I should tell you ‘cos it’s going to explode.

“I was constructed for you and you were molded for me”

It begins with one word. Love.
It just turns out my mind, how we’ve started.
How we’ve made our love and how we’ve built our love story.
We both know that this feeling is real. No matter what others say.

We both know and we’ve learn from the last moment when the storm hit us.
When we really fell into pieces with no one to blame.
When we really say nothing at all though we have a lot of things in our mind.
That was the hardest part. So much pain. Total eclipse of the heart.

But there always a rainbow after the storm.
Then suddenly, the sun shines again. Little by little but for sure.
I don’t know about how we’ve started this way.
I don’t even think about the risk that we take.

We just got in it without thinking about anything.
We just can’t stop this heart from beating.
We just can’t handle this feeling.
And I just know I can’t help falling in love with you.

The love that we share means everything to me.
I love the way it flow. Feels like the air blew my hair.
I love you all the way without comparing you with another perfect boy.
I just know that I love this guy –you , no matter how bad he is.
I just know that I need to be with him.
Not just because I need him but it’s much because I finally know that he needs me as well.

I would never regret anything.
Sure I am because you bring me so much memory that I can’t even count it.
You bring me to smile. You bring me to laugh all the way.

You, my love…
I wish I could say straight to you that I love you.
I wish I could hold you and sing you a lullaby, your favorite lullaby till you fall asleep.
And I wish I could kiss you and make you feel all the things that I never said.

I love this part,
“I was constructed for you and you were molded for me”
How do you think about it?
I just hope you feel it all the way like I do.

<3

 Lizzy, 30th June 2012, 10.16 P.M